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Reasons To Enroll Your Child In A Martial Arts Class
From
Diana Davila
www.about.com
When a parent is considering enrolling their child or children into a
martial arts school, they have to consider both their motivation and the
motivations of their child. In order for a child to learn to love and
stick with martial arts training over a long period of time, they have
to share common goals with their parents, and most of all, the parents
and child all have to enjoy it. If a parent's goals aren't being met,
then they may feel they aren't getting their money's worth. If a child's
goals are not being met, then they will feel like they are being forced
to train, and will never give 100%. The following are some of the most
common reasons given for joining a children's martial arts class.
Consider why you want your child to train, and have a talk with your
child about whether they really are interested in classes, and what they
hope to learn or do in class.
Physical
Fitness
Just like
with adults, one of the most common reasons for enrolling a child into a
martial arts class is fitness. Childhood obesity rates are climbing, and
more and more children are spending a lot more time in front of the
television, playing video games and using a computer. However, even
among more active children, martial arts is still attractive since it is
seen as a very good source of exercise that also teaches skills. Martial
arts can help improve cardiovascular endurance, flexibility, balance,
strength and overall energy levels.
Life Skills
Another
popular reason for enrolling children in the martial arts is to develop
"life skills". These skills include discipline, self control, patience,
confidence, courage etc. The idea with these classes and this motivation
is to reinforce what is already being taught at home. Martial arts
classes can be a valuable tool for helping to really drive home the
points you make at home in a very real way.
Self Defense
Self defense
is the most obvious reason that should come to mind when considering
enrolling a child in the martial arts. The focus of a good children's
martial arts class, while still teaching self defense movements, should
be on conflict resolution, personal responsibility and avoidance. In
that respect, attending a good martial arts class would benefit both the
bully by teaching to respect others as well as your own power, and the
bullied, by teaching how to calm a situation or defend oneself if need
be.
Behavior
Issues
Many parents
turn to the martial arts when their children are acting out in school
and at home. This is tied in to the life skills reason, but is very
specific in what the desired outcome is,. These parents are looking for
help improving attention span, respect, demeanor and self control. The
structure of many martial arts classes can greatly aid in these areas,
however results will really vary and depend on the relationship that is
built between the child and the instructor. If the instructor has a good
method of communicating with the child, is firm but friendly, and most
importantly, is very consistent, then the child can really get a lot of
out martial arts training.
Safe, after
school activity
Many parents
are just seeking a safe, wholesome, useful activity for their child to
occupy some of their free time. These parents don't want their child to
sit at home all evening, or want them to get involved in something that
makes them set and follow through on goals. Martial arts training will
certainly help in that respect. A good martial arts school can become a
second home for many children. The relationships built between
classmates and with an instructor can last a lifetime and have a huge
positive impact on a child's life
Whatever
reasons you have for enrolling your child in a martial arts class, be
sure to discuss your goals with your child, and come to an understanding
that will make both of you happy. A one sided arrangement in something
with such a large investment of time, energy and money really will not
work out to anyone's benefit.

Benefits of
Martial Arts Training For Kids
The benefits of martial arts training for
children… by
Laura
Saunders
Admit it.
When the going gets tough at home, we’ve all plopped the kids in front
of the television and breathed a sigh of relief. Finally, we can get
started on dinner, maybe check email or sort that massive pile of
laundry.
But when your five-year old yells at you "Mom, Kids Rule!" or your
ten-year old horrifies you with language that would make a sailor blush,
you realize there must be something amiss with what these "family
programs" really teach our kids. And sadly, its happening all over the
media today, from sports to cartoons, and our children are learning
things that we, as parents, vowed we would never teach them. Old
fashioned values like respect and self-discipline, seems to have been
forgotten, replaced by the dreaded "bling bling" pop culture of today.
Just the thought of your angelic three-year old morphing into a
designer-clad, smart-mouthed, money-worshipping, me-obsessed, lay-about
is enough to make any parent consider that threatening military school
brochure, but there is a solution out there to consider. Martial Arts
training.
From Ninja Turtles to The Karate Kid
You and your kids have all seen the flying kicks, battle cries and
mighty chops of their favorite TV characters, as they beat the bad guys
to submission – but, you may ask, how on earth can these acts of
violence teach my child anything worthwhile?
First, know that what you see on television (save perhaps the Karate
Kid) is a far cry from what real martial arts are all about. The fact
is, martial arts training is based on non-violence.
Originating in Asia (mainly Japan, China and Korea, although Thailand
and Vietnam have their own practices as well), martial arts range from a
variety of types and styles, all of which are based on well-rounded,
moral teachings. The beauty of learning martial arts is that it
encompasses not just the physical aspect of the "sport", but mental and
emotional lessons as well.
Comparing that to other kid’s activities and sports, where fierce
competitiveness and "winning at all costs" seems to be the order of the
day, it’s not surprising that many children grapple with issues of
self-esteem and misplaced aggression.
Now imagine your child actually learning valuable life lessons, skills
that he will take throughout life, laying the foundation for a happy,
well-adjusted and fulfilled adult life. If only karate for kids was
popular in the 70’s, when I was growing up!
The Advantages
• Karate,
and other martial arts for kids, builds confidence and self-esteem as
well as self-discipline, respect, concentration and courtesy.
• Many martial arts schools also offer leadership courses for kids, in
conjunction with their karate for kids programs, or similar lessons.
• Martial Arts is ideal for children who do not do well in team sports,
giving them the ability to flourish this activity, while combining
physical and mental practices.
• Many do not realize this, but it is a fact that martial arts training
are safer than most school sports.
• Children with special needs, such as ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder),
learning difficulties and hyperactivity are often recommended to
participate in martial arts for kids because of the clear benefits in
its structured training techniques
Kung-Fu Master or Ninja Warrior?
Before you sign up Junior for the first martial arts class you see, take
some time to check out the different methods available, and match it
with what you know would suit your child best. This is a good way to
avoid any problems that may sprout from a conflict of your child’s
personality and the training techniques.
Is your little Zach a sensitive soul? Then maybe a class that doesn’t
center on sparring (full-on kicks and punches training) but rather,
slower, defensive maneuvers would fare better for him. Kids with an
aggressive streak, however, may prefer the more forceful moves and
thrive in competitive sparring.
Here’s a quick primer on the kid-friendly martial arts training you’re
likely to find:
Martial Arts From Japan
Karate
• Uses defensive and aggressive moves
• Centers on building strength and endurance
• Involves chops, punches, kicks, strikes, blocking and sparring
• May use weapons
Jujitsu
• Uses defensive and aggressive moves
• Involves lots of sparring
• Teaches a fair amount of weapons training
Aikido
• Uses a more "spiritual" and harmonious style in redirecting the
aggression of the attacker as the form of defense, using throws, pins,
rolls etc.
• Taught on the premise of disabling an aggressor without attacking,
through your individual inner energy
• Does not involve sparring or competitions
Judo
• Uses gentle, "wrestling-like" movements
• Considered one of the safest methods of martial arts
• Emphasizes physical control as well as mental development
• Engages in competitions
Martial Arts From China
Kung-Fu
• The generic term referring to Chinese martial arts with a variety of
styles
• Involves attack movements as well as defensive techniques
• Teaches kicks, punches, chops, throws, falls, grappling, katas, leg
sweeps and blows among others.
• Engages in sparring competitions
Martial Arts From Korea
Taekwondo
• Competitive in nature, involves techniques using elaborate footwork
and unique high kicks.
• Emphasizes strength, force and attack methods.
• Engages in lots of sparring and competitions.
Choosing The Right Instruction
If you have an idea of the type of martial arts class you’d like your
child to participate in, the next step would be to find the right
school. Finding the right class that not only matches your child’s and
your needs, in terms of teachers you feel comfortable with, the price,
facilities and so on, are all important factors.
Say you’ve found a local place that specializes in Karate for Kids. What
are the things you should look for?
1. Good Instructors
Check out their qualifications, teaching methods and watch carefully how
they interact with the other children. It should be a fun learning
experience!
2. Space and Safety
Obviously you would want to entrust your child in as establishment that
is safe, well-maintained, and clean with ample space as well as decent
facilities and equipment.
3. School Values
Different martial arts schools inevitably go by different values, for
instance, one kid’s karate class may handle aggression in one way, while
a judo class would have a different approach. Take some time to observe
which school’s ideals match your family’s principles.
4. Prices and Schedules
Prices for martial arts training can vary according to school and
location, so make sure you the instruction you choose represents fair
value. Finding the most effective way to fit martial arts training into
your family’s lifestyle is also essential, knowing what works best with
your schedule and other activities.
Baby Blackbelts
Starting your child young in karate training is ideal (children as young
as the age of four are usually accepted, as it is also a good way to
hone fine motor skills), and lots of parents have found that in as
little as a year, their children who were involved in martial arts had
noticeably gained positive traits such as increased self-esteem, respect
and overall physical fitness.
Many parents also opt to join a martial arts training program
themselves, making it a great bonding experience for the entire family.
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